Speaking up for yourself is helps you, your relationships, but our culture desperately needs it too.
If you can’t comfortably speak up and disagree, everyone loses.
The world is a messy place.
Being ‘cancelled’, failing relationships, social media going up while social skills are going down. In 17 years of coaching I’ve found almost EVERY solution to a clients problem involved some kind of tough conversation that the client was less than excited to have.
Tough conversations almost NEVER require the end of a relationship, but they can be so anxiety provoking we can see no other way.
Change starts with you.
It’s not going to be easy...permanent change rarely is.
But even if you DO know what to do - you need someone to hold you accountable, to talk about your progress, and to help you solidify your work into a long term solution instead of just being another ‘thing you tried once’.
You can only take the step in front of you. This is that step.
No cost. No obligation. This program isn’t for everyone, let’s see if we are each other’s cup of tea.
Once you understand how this works, you’ll understand how working with me makes you a more confident person.
Forever.
Here’s how it works.
LEARN THE RULES
We’ve researched the worlds best methods from psychology, sales, and best selling authors on assertive and confident self expression.
We did it, so you don’t have to.
In only 5 minutes per day, you’ll understand the best methods in the field of assertive communication within just 2 weeks.
PRACTICE THE RULES
There’s no point knowing the rules if you’re not going to execute them.
This stage we perform the most reliable training we can, repetition of circumstances where you can apply the rules learned.
100x interesting and strange circumstances that might scare you in real life, but instead you’re practicing them on your phone.
In high repetition. Using speech. In 5 minutes a day.
BREAK THE RULES
Now that you know the rules, you’ve practiced the rules, it’s time to make the rules suit YOU.
Growing up you learned to write by hand from a teacher who taught a bunch of other kids the same thing.
But you all ended up with different hand writing, because you’re all different people.
This stage is about your own creative flair using the rules you’ve learned.
Your thoughts are great, and all your opportunity lay behind your ability to articulate them.
“I was already assertive, but usually too harsh. Motherofskill taught me how to be assertive without being a jerk.”
Chris Penza, Lawyer.
How coaching works
Every coaching package is tailored to your needs, but in general the process looks something like this:
Step 1.
Get your inner game right
Before you can achieve your vision, you first need to believe that you can achieve it. With my help you will develop the mindset of a successful entrepreneur, gaining the mental and emotional skills necessary to be the leader your project, and life, needs.
Step 2.
Develop your vision & strategy
No matter how great the idea trapped inside your head is, its realization depends on your ability to take action. I’ll help you develop your vision, create the strategy that’s going to make it happen and start taking action.
Step 3.
Take action
At some stage you may be visited by a sinking feeling and thoughts such as ‘what was I thinking’ or ‘there’s too much to do’. I’ll help you overcome the overwhelm, put-off procrastination and take regulr action to create sustainable momentum that gives you the full life you crave.
Train Social Skills Like An Elite Athlete
Elite level athletes do 4 things to achieve consistent, reliable and permanent results:
They make sure they train the best methods available.
They EXECUTE the ACTIVITY, not the theory.
Reps, reps, reps.
Coaches hold them accountable to the training.
Regular coaching means you only get 1 of these elements.
With the best methods x speech recognition x role plays x my coaching - you’re training like Kobe Bryant.
So when the situation where you need to confront someone arises - there’s no anxiety. You’ve done it a hundred times.
It’s just one more rep.
Tyson’s assertiveness training taught me how to better communicate
with my staff and how to stop agreeing to things that I didn’t
want to do and feel good about it! He has a deep understanding
of people and what makes us tick and that makes him very good
at what he does.
Jana Bennet, Pharmacist
Voiceta
A New Way to Train Spoken Skills
Voiceta was created in community pharmacy for pharmacy teams to
distribute methods of high performance staff from 1 staff to 150 staff in
short, retail friendly, microtrainings.
It all starts with one simple action:
